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Building Confidence In Children: A Guide For Parents

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  Confidence is a crucial aspect of children's development. It influences children's ability to take risks, try new things, adjust to sudden changes, and develop a positive self image. Without confidence in the minds of children, they cannot achieve anything in this physical life because fearful souls are not achievers. They cannot set goals and pursue them with determination and doggedness. They doubt everything: both the one that is true and untrue. Opportunities and successes come their ways severally, but the doubtful minds let them pass away from them. They are extremely careful to try anything that is new. They fear failures; and because of that reason, they spend long years of their lives in doubts, fear, and poverty. If there is anything important and indsipensable that parents and caregivers should bequeath to their children as legacy other than wealth, it is confidence! During the early stages of child's development, children are constantly learning and exploring ...

Helping Children To Stay Focused On Learning

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 In today's fast-paced world of technology, staying focused on learning can be a significant challenge for children. With numerous distractions and competing priorities, it is easy for children to lose sight of their educational goals. However, with the right strategies and mindset, children can overcome these obstacles and achieve success. The first step to helping children stay focused on learning is to identify the underlying causes of their lack of focus. Is it due to lack of interest in the subject matter? Is it as a result of distractions and competing priorities? Once the underlying causes are identified, parents and caregivers can develop targeted strategies to address the issues. For example, if a child is struggling with a particular subject, providing an additional support or resources can help to build his/ her confidence and motivation.  Creating a conducive learning environment is also essential for helping children stay focused. This can include providing a quie...

Importance Of Creating Child-Friendly Facilities In Public Places

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 In recent years, there has been a growing recognition of the need to create child-friendly facilities in public places, such as restaurants, shopping malls (supermarket complexes), airports, parks, and garages. This shift in thinking acknowledges the importance of accommodating the need of mental and physical well-being for children and families. By creating child-friendly facilities, businesses and organizations can create a welcoming and inclusive environment that supports the needs of children and their parents and caregivers.  One key aspect of child-friendly facilities is providing play facilities in particular, to cater to children's physical and emotional needs. Play is essential for children's cognitive, social, and emotional development, and providing play areas in public areas can help to promote healthy development and reduce stress. For example, many shopping malls in Singapore have designated play areas for children, complete with play structures, soft fooring, a...

What Makes A Child An "Angel" In Public And "Hell" At Home?

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  The dichotomy of a child's behaviour in public versus at home (private) is a phenomenon that has puzzled many parents and caregivers in the time past and also presently.  While children may appear angelic and well-behaved in public, they can transform into angels of darkness at their homes by exhibiting behaviours that are often described as "hellish." This disparity in behaviour can be attributed to various factors, including the child's environment, emotional state, and relationships with parents, caregivers, and peers. One possible explanation for this dichotomy is the child's inability to regulate his/ her emotions and behaviours in different settings. In public, children feel more inclined to be another person due to the presence of strangers and the desire to make a good impression. They may also be more likely to follow rules and listen to their parents' instructions in order to avoid embarrassment or disapproval. In contrast, at their homes, children...

Teaching Your Child Proper Eating Etiquette

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 Teaching your child proper eating etiquette is an essential life skill that can benefit him/ her in many ways, from building confidence in social situations, to developing good table manners and respect for others. By instilling good eating habits and etiquette in your child, you can help that child navigate various social situations with ease and poise. Teaching your child eating etiquette is not just about following rules, it is rather about showing respect for others and developing social skills. When children learn proper eating etiquette, they are more likely to feel comfortable in social situations, such as in dining with friends or family, and are less likely to embarrass themselves or others. For example, in Japan, children are taught to use chopsticks correctly and to wait for the most senior person to start eating before they begin.  Teaching basic table manners is an essential part of eating etiquette. This includes using utensils correctly, not talking with your m...

Why Do Children Misbehave More In Public Than At Home?

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 Children misbehave more in public places than at their homes for a variety of reasons: ranging from seeking attention and testing boundaries, to feeling overwhelmed and frustrated. This phenomenon is a common concern for parents and caregivers worldwide, as it can be embarrassing, stressful, and challenging to manage. One reason children misbehave more in public is that they often feel a sense of excitement and freedom in new environments. When children are in public, they may feel more liberated to test boundaries and push limits, as they may perceive the rules and expectations to be different from those obtainable at homes. For example, a child who is normally well-behaved at home may become extremely disobedient in a crowded and rowdy shopping malls (supermarkets), airports, and parks. Parents and caregivers should not be surprised when children misbehave at public places. It is their nature to respond that way in new environments. At the banking halls, children can decide to c...

Parenting An Introverted Child

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 Parenting an introverted child can be a rewarding experience, but it requires a deep understanding of their unique needs and personality traits. An introvert is someone who tends to be more reserved, reflective, and quiet, preferring to spend time alone or in small groups rather than in large social gatherings. Introversion is often misunderstood as shyness or social anxiety, but it is a distinct personality trait that is not necessarily related to these issues. Introverts tend to recharge by being alone, whereas extroverts tend to recharge by being around others. This fundamental difference in energy sources can have a significant impact on how introverted children interact with the world around them. For example, in Japan, introverted children are often encouraged to participate in group activities, but they may also be given time to reflect and recharge on their own. Introverted children often possess unique strengths, such as deep thinking, creativity, and independence (autono...