Tips For Proper Child's Training Cont'd.

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Contd. from previous publication... 21. Always say the truth even if you will be punished for doing so. 22. Be confident of yourself. 23. You must always be yourself. Don't copy anybody. 24. Show kindness to others and help them. 25. Show good table manners: eat gently, don't talk when eating, don't let anybody see what you are chewing in your mouth, and don't let your mouth make any sound when you are chewing something. 25. Respect your elders but don't allow them to tell you to do anything that is wrong. If they do, decline immediately. 26. Learn how to say "Please" when requesting for something, and say "Thank you" (not God bless you) after receiving it. 27. Teach the children personal hygiene: brush the teeth properly daily, bathe at least twice daily, wash your hands after making use of the rest room etc. 28. Teach your children not to discuss with any stranger and not to follow him/ her to anywhere. 29. Teach your children to admit when they are wrong; and to accept corrections with humility. 30. Teach your children when to uncompromisingly say "Yes" or "No" to anybody irrespective of the person's status in the society. 31. Teach them to save money and not to spend money impulsively. Children should learn the art of saving money from the cradles. Make a safe for your children to save their money. If not, they won't know how to save money and invest it wisely at adulthood. 32. Teach your children that money spent in buying land is better and higher than money saved in the bank. Inflation can kill billions of dollars in the banks but it can't affect a landed asset. Landed assets are stronger than inflation and appreciates in value daily. 33. Teach your children to be independent. It means that while the child shall be taught obedience and submission to authorities, he/ she must not accept to be a slave to anybody. 34. Tell the children to protect biodiversity: flora (flowers and trees), fauna (animals) marine ecosystems ( fish and biota) and all natural systems. 35. Teach the children to accept defeat with quietude. 36. They should learn how to deal with rejection, lonelinesses, failure, disappointment and stress. Let them understand that hard conditions do not last forever! 37. They should comfort others who are in sorrow. 39. Tell them that they must not do anything that will bring pain, shame and regret to your family and the society. 40. Teach your children not to walk home alone at night. At adulthood, they should not be night crawlers moving from night club to night club , but should return home in the evening at the close of work. 41. Don't judge matters from one angle and with partiality. 42. Tell the children to always have faith in God and to look at the bright side of things. 43. Teach your children the difference between needs and wants so that they would know what to go for at any given time. God promised to meet the needs ( water, food, and shelter) of people in the world, and never promised to give us all our wants (Iuxury, aircraft and trips to the moon). Please, share this with your friends and loved ones.

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