Teaching Table Manners Through Operant Conditioning

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Teaching children table manners is an essential part of their socialization and development. Operant conditioning, a learning process in which behaviour is modified by its consequences, can be an effective way to teach children table manners. By using reinforcement and punishment, parents and caregivers can shape children's behaviours and help them develop good table manners. 

* Step 1: Define the behaviours:

Identify specific table manners:

Determine which table manners you want to teach, such as saying "Please" and "Thank you", keeping elbows off the table, or not talking with mouth full.

2. Make a list:

Write down the specific behaviours you want to teach the children and post them conspicuously in a visible place.

* Step 2: Use positive reinforcement:

1. Praise good behaviours:

Whenever a child exhibits good table manner, praise him/ her for that and provide positive reinforcement, such as stickers or small treat.

2. Use rewards:

Consider setting up a reward system, such as "good manners" chart, where the child earns stickers or starts for good behaviours.

* Step 3: Use negative reinforcement:

1. Remove unpleasant stimulus:

When the child exhibits good table manners, remove an unpleasant stimulus, such as a chore or a less desirable food.

2. Avoid punishment:

Avoid using punishment or negative reinforcement that is too harsh, as this can lead to negative associations with meal time.

* Step 4: Be consistent:

1. Establish clear expectations:

Make sure that the child understands what is expected of him/ her in terms of table manners.

2. Consistently reinforce good behaviour:

Consistently reinforce good behaviours, even if it is inconvenient or the child resists.

* Examples of operant conditioning in teaching table manners:

1. Saying "Please" and "Thank you": 

Every time the child says "Please" and "Thank you" during meals, he/ she should receive a praise and sticker. 

2. Keeping elbows off the table:

Every time the child keeps his/ her hands off the table during meals, he/ she should earn a small treat or privilege for that. By so doing, the child will be encouraged to learn more.

In conclusion, teaching children table manners through operant conditioning can be an effective way to shape their behaviours and help them develop good habits. By using positive reinforcement, negative reinforcement, and consistency, parents and caregivers can help children learn table manners that will benefit them throughout their lives.

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